Albert Einstein Quote
“I know quite certainly that I myself have no special talent; curiosity, obsession and dogged endurance, combined with self-criticism, have brought me to my ideas." - Albert Einstein
3.29.2006
Harry S. Truman Quote
“In reading the lives of great men, I found that the first victory they won was over themselves...self-discipline with all of them came first.” - Harry S. Truman
3.26.2006
Do Something Remarkable
Don't live down to expectations. Go out there and do something remarkable. - Wendy Wasserstein (she just passed away a few months ago)
Don't Miss Your Opportunities!
"Nothing is so often irretrievably missed as a daily opportunity." - Marie von Ebner-Eschenbach
Listening
Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you'd have preferred to talk. - Doug Larson
3.20.2006
3.19.2006
Paul Sweeney Quote
"How can a society that exists on instant mashed potatoes, packaged cake mixes, frozen dinners, and instant cameras teach patience to its young?" - Paul Sweeney
Self-Esteem vs. Self-Respect
In my day, we didn't have self-esteem, we had self-respect, and no more of it than we had earned. - Jane Haddam
3.16.2006
Fear
"To fear is one thing. To let fear grab you by the tail and swing you around is another." - Katherine Paterson
We Must Die To Live!
"All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another." - Anatole France
Optimal Thinking
Optimal Thinking
By Steve Pavlina
Optimal Thinking by Rosalene Glickman is a book I read about a year ago. I don’t recommend that anyone here read it because it’s one of those books that reads like an article padded out to the length of the book. You need only read the first chapter to absorb 80% of the book’s value. And I’ll give you that 80% right now, so you don’t even need to do that.
Here’s the concept of optimal thinking in a nutshell. Suboptimal thinking is when you ask questions like, “What’s a good/great way to do X?” or “How can I solve Y?” Optimal thinking is when you ask, “What’s the best way to do X?” or “How can I solve Y in the best way possible?” It may seem like a subtle and unimportant difference, but when you start applying this rule to your life, I think you’ll see some interesting results as I have.
For example, when planning your next day, you might ask yourself (perhaps subconsciously and nonverbally), “What’s a good way to schedule my time tomorrow?” And by answering that question, you’ll plan a decent schedule for yourself. But it’s most likely a suboptimal schedule. Try instead asking yourself, “What’s the best way to schedule my time tomorrow?” Now you’re seeking the optimal solution — the best instead of just good or even great.
Sometimes you don’t immediately know the best solution to a problem. So what you can do in that situation is to ask, “What will the best solution look like?” And then you start listing attributes and constraints that your optimal solution will need to exhibit. This helps you narrow your list of alternatives. If you know a particular attribute of the optimal solution, then you can reject all possible solutions that lack that attribute.
Going back to the example of the best possible scheduling of your day, you might list some of these attributes: awaken early, exercise, work at least 8 solid hours, eat healthy meals, spend time with family, do something fun and rewarding in the evening, stretch myself in some way, get email inbox completely emptied, read for an hour, etc. Then you can work backwards from these subgoals to piece together your optimal schedule.
Keep in mind that the best solution always takes into account the resources you have available. If a possible solution is impractical, then it certainly isn’t optimal. So if the best way to schedule your day would require a supercomputer and six hours of planning time, then that solution is far from being the best. You might wish to include your key constraints in your original question, such as, “What’s the best way to schedule my time tomorrow in 20 minutes or less?”
In my experience the most beneficial aspect of optimal thinking is that it helps you raise your standards. Instead of settling for suboptimal solutions and mediocre results, you commit to doing your best, yet in a way that’s practical and which considers the reality of your situation. Often when you ask yourself, “What’s the best …,” you’ll find your mind zooming towards a very different kind of solution than you would if you asked suboptimal questions.
Here are some sample optimal thinking questions to get your mind moving in that direction:
What’s the best use of my time right now?
* What’s the best way for me to exercise regularly (when, what, how)?
* What’s the best way to get myself out of debt?
* What’s the best way for me to make an extra $10,000 as quickly as possible?
* What’s the best school for my child to attend?
* What’s the best place for me to live?
* What’s the best way to reply to this email? (use this one repeatedly to purge that clogged inbox)
* What’s the best way for me to improve my social life?
* What’s the best book I should read next?
* What’s the best character class I could play in City of Heroes?
* What’s the best new blog I should be reading regularly and tell everyone I know about?
Ask and you shall receive. Ask for the best.
Copyright © Steve Pavlina
Steve PavlinaPersonal Development for Smart People http://www.stevepavlina.comhttp://www.stevepavlina.com/blog (blog)http://www.stevepavlina.com/articles (articles)
Steve is intensely growth-oriented. He trained in martial arts, ran the L.A. Marathon, and graduated from college in three semesters with two degrees. He can juggle, count cards at blackjack, and make damn good guacamole. Steve is also a polyphasic sleeper, sleeping just 2-3 hours per day and only 20 minutes at a time. So chances are good that he's awake right now.
3.10.2006
Confucius-Our Greatest Glory
Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall. - Confucius
Attitude-W.C. Fields
Attitude is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than what people do or say. It is more important than appearance, giftedness, or skill. - W.C. Fields
3.04.2006
Not Because They Are-You Are!
Treat everyone with politeness, even those who are rude to you - not because they are nice, but because you are. - Author Unknown
Roosevelt Quote
"This country will not be a good place for any of us to live in unless we make it a good place for all of us to live in." - Theodore Roosevelt
3.02.2006
Friends in Overalls
I have friends in overalls whose friendship I would not swap for the favor of the kings of the world. - Thomas Edison
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